A little about me

I’ve only been in this for about 2ish years now. My partner and I have had to overcome a lot. We were together before him being sentenced, but not “together”. I’m sure some of you know what I mean when you read that lol…. But I’m sure others don’t. This is a tricky thing. Even other women who are in similar situations will still judge the next persons situation.

I’m 23, I will be 24 this year (2026). My man is 21 and he will be 22 this year. I had known him for years before we ever even really talked. I’m not sure if a lot of you are familiar with the “Red String Theory”, if you’re not, I recommend reading up on that. I believe that’s similar to my man and I. We knew each other through mutual friends. But we were never really friends. Until one day we were. And then we were more.

I’ll be the first to admit I went through a lot of heartbreak with this man when we were just a “situationship”. A lot of the times I wasn’t sure why I stayed around, I mean we were never closed before we got involved. I could’ve walked away if I wanted to, but I didn’t. There was something more there and I felt it. We had never put a label on it, it started off slowly. He still talked and had “relations” with other women. On my end, from the first link up, it was only him for me. I didn’t hangout with any other men, I didn’t talk to any other men.

Okay…. I feel the judgement coming in LOL!!!!